Relationship

Er, nope. I'm not in relationship with anyone. This is just a random post about relationship because of a status posted by my friend and problems faced by her friend. Her friend had been caught cheating on her boyfriend, argued, broke up and then were back together again. Few days ago, he brought up the topic and she didn't know whether to cover up her lie with more lies or just come clean. Either way, their relationship would fall apart soon due to dishonesty.

Teenagers our age don't really know how to love someone properly. Even I myself have no idea how to do so. Yes, I know but that doesn't mean I'd do according to what I know. Sometimes, treating each other with sincerity will ended up being backfire by dishonesty. Tolerating, trusting and understanding each other is important, but there is no free lunch in the world. Everyone wants to "receive" but they just don't know they have to "give" in order to "receive". A mature lover will protect and respect his/her spouse, love him/her unconditionally, be truthful and will not try to make his/her spouse jealous of others.

When a lover is not honest enough to tell the truth, what is the point of telling the other to trust him/her? In the end, his/her trust for the lover will be reduced, getting insecure and paranoid. Even if the lover does not lie anymore, s/he will not really trust the lover. But if one has decided to let go, there is no point in holding on. It's just like holding grains of sand in the palm, the tighter you hold, the faster the sand slips away. Avoiding is not the best way to solve the problem, coming clean and clear would be the best solution. If they still love each other, if they still have faith, who knows what will happen in future? Maybe fate will bring them back together.

Okay, enough of emo stuffs. Diverting my topic to something else. I was bored at home and ended up playing with makeup. Comparing the pictures of before-and-after makeup, I felt super scary. Le power of makeup. Still, maybe I shall makeup to church on CNY just for fun. Hopefully the weather won't be too hot or else my makeup will melt. Nooo~

Eberwein wants to go to Lost World for hot spring when she is back but I think there will be lots of people plus the weather is freaking hot lately. I think I'd melt if I go into the water. Even the pool water is super hot, I guess. Mentioning about Lost world, I have been going back to places which I had been to with him before, those places were filled with too much memories but I guess I am slowly healing. Other than sighing when thinking back, there's no hard feeling or being emo. Okay, slightly, but it is bound to happen anyways. I'll be fine, seriously.

Happy Belated Birthday to Stepfanie. She's officially a legal adult yesterday and spent her lovely birthday morning with her beloved, caring boyfriend honeymoon-ing at Lambir. Ahem ahem. I want to know what happened when she brought him to meet her family last night. Wakakaka! Please keep me updated! I love you, Ah Ma!

P.S. That dude got girlfriend already. He said he'd wait me. I told him he is bound to have a girlfriend during the "waiting period". He overthrown my statement. And there is the irony in his words. If I ever trust a word he said to me before, I'm a brainless person. Hohoho~ And the above conversation was about his girlfriend. No doubt I was being overly self-loving but guys fall for her good looks (more like, her huge boobs or her slim body or her photoshopped pictures) and then both of us were saying something idiotic above for fun xD

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